More Failure Than Success — E-Book for the kindle and kindle app


more failure than success

Never have so few words emoted such raw power….  A collection of reflections about success, failure, wanting to quit, rebounding and moving on.

From the author. “Anyone who knows me, has seen me go through some ups and downs the last couple of years. I wrote this short collection of reflections to help myself stay positive, be grateful and enjoy life.
In helping myself, I hope to help others as well.”

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The Great Paradox: To Live A Better Life; Embrace The Certainty Of Your Death


Classic Doc Joe:  For the next several weeks I will be re-posting some of my original writings. Sadly, the last several months, I lost sight of what I had previously written. 


I just learned of the passing of ESPN’s Stuart Scott and I felt the need to re-post this previous writting. Stuart Scott inspired many, not only during his battle with cancer, but in his groundbreaking role at ESPN. Stuart fought hard, only to have cancer return not once, but twice.  

The Grim Reaper remains undefeated, but Stuart Scott showed that it is about the quality of life that matters.  Thank you Mr. Scott for reminding me of that which I had forgotten. Those who have known you are truly blessed. My sincerest and deepest condolences to his family and many friends, Stuart Scott will always remain as cool as the other side of the pillow…. Godspeed and Rest In Peace. Booyah!

“When you die, it does not mean that you lose to cancer. You beat cancer by how you live, why you live, and in the manner in which you live.”   Stuart Scott, 2014  from his Jimmy V Perseverance Award acceptance speech at the ESPYs

 

“…in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”  Benjamin Franklin 

…all living things have to die. … We all die,some of us sooner then later.” Georgia Lass

 

There are events in our lives that make us aware of our own mortality.  I have had three definitive instances in my lifetime that have done this.  Unfortunately, that was all those particular instances did — made me aware.

Most of us know that one day we are going to die.  As we have grown into adulthood we have lost loved ones and we reflect on their life and we take a moment, especially if someone dies suddenly or unexpectedly,  to realize that one day that will be us.  Sometimes we reflect for more than a moment, other times even less.  However long we reflect or pause, we move on and forward, but inside we may not genuinely believe that one day that will be us.

Our mortality is one of those intangibles in life because it is so hard to grasp.  We learn by experience, and while a brush with death, battling a life threatening illness or a near death experience may remind us that we are merely mortal, we may not actually accept the fact.

You see that is, in my opinion, the difference that really matters.  We can be aware that we will one day die, but we may not really in our hearts accept it.  For most of us we look at our deaths as something that may happen and if we concede the certainty, we cling to the belief that it is a day that is a long way off.

After my cardiac catheterization, I went from being aware of, to accepting of my ultimate demise.  It was a moment that freed me of many of my worries and concerns.  To not only know, but genuinely, whole-heartedly accepted the one truth about life, my person was suddenly set free.

I have written about the detriments of negative energy in the past.  It was a concept that I was always well aware of, but until the moment of my mortality acceptance, it was more metaphysical than substantive. When I embraced my mortality, when I accepted that one day I will die — it was then that I fully began to live.

I no longer allow the, often times, real worries of daily living to impact my life.

I no longer allow the uncontrollable actions of others to dampen my joy of living.

I no longer complain, whine and chatter endlessly about the unimportant aspects of every day existence.

I do not love nor even like, the area in which I reside.  I don’t like the attitude of despair and hopelessness. I am not a fan of cold temperatures, icy roads, snow or any other aspect associated with winter in the Northeastern Untied States. However, right now at this moment in time, this is where I am.  I am here because of decisions that I made, so instead of bemoaning the aspects I don’t care for, I focus exclusively on the positives that are present.

Because I not only acknowledge and accept, but dare I say relish my mortality, I embrace the dawn of each and every new morning. When I go out for a jog in the sometimes very frigid morning air, I allow the briskness of the atmosphere to stimulate my senses. When the white precipitations falls from the sky, instead of grumbling about shoveling it, I look forward to the manual work I am physically capable of performing.

It is also about perspective:

  • In the cold temperatures, I have a warm place to sleep.
  • In tough financial times, I have a family to love me and a family for me to love.

I no longer put off enjoying my life.  I recently went to Southern California to visit my sister and nephews.  Money isn’t as free as it has been in the past.  For a very brief moment I thought I should not go.  I juggled some bills, put off others and made the trek west.  The boys will only be young for a brief period of time and I want to be part of it as often as I can.

Because living a fit life is living a better life I have been quoted as saying, “Eat and exercise as if you will live forever and live as if you will die tomorrow.”

I have a goal of changing my residence to a warmer climate, near the ocean and earning enough to unite my family in that one location, yet as I work and plan toward that goal, I accept, that for reasons beyond my control, my life may end before I get there so — I will not allow today to pass in hopes of a tomorrow that may never arrive.

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Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white.  

Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy, 

Joe full color cover

Sometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/1492763365Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism. **************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.*********** Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.comhttp://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q and on CreateSpace https://www.createspace.com/3903024 ************The information contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.************

Hard Work — A Lesson Learned From Jimmy Cefalo via Coach Barberi


Originally posted July 2011

 

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I wasn’t an athletic youth, but I always participated in sports related activities.  As kids we didn’t have video games, Facebook, computers or five hundred cable channels to occupy our time.  We played outside; in the parks, in the streets or in vacant, or not so vacant, lots — anywhere we could find a spot, we played sports.  Football, baseball and basketball where the big three.  But we also made up games that involved physical activity, we even had our own neighborhood Olympic Games.  Being overweight, I wasn’t the best,  I was often picked last, but still — I participated.

Over the summer between eighth and ninth grade I decided I was going to go out for football.  No matter how ridiculous it sounds in retrospect, I was going to play for the Pittston Area Patriots, Penn State Nitnany Lions and finally I would play in the National Football League.cefalo jersey

Summer program was the first step along my path.  My mom dropped me off at the front entrance to the high school.  Instead of turning right and going into the gym, I went straight. Beyond a second set of glass doors my gaze was fixed on the trophy case.  Little statuettes of championship seasons stared back at me, but it was the center item that had my full attention — the number 44 jersey worn by Jimmy Cefalo.

I daydreamed about playing on the gridiron wearing the Pittston red, white a blue.  I didn’t see nor hear anything else. Suddenly my day slumber was broken by a large hand that had fallen over my shoulder, it was that of legendary head football coach Bob Barbieri.  “You are going to be part of this son.”

I just nodded my head.  It was as if the hand of God himself had touched me.  He continued, “Jimmy was the best, a natural talent, but do you know what made him great?”

I couldn’t speak.  I simply stared at the jersey and then the coach.  “He worked and practiced harder than anyone else.”  He paused for a moment,  “In his time here he set track records as well as football, but no matter what he did, he didn’t rely solely on his natural abilities.”  Still awestruck I said nothing. Coach Barbieri led me down to the gym.

Icefalo athletic center only was on the team for two seasons.  I never started, heck I barely played, but I worked hard and enjoyed the game.  However, I took from those two years valuable lessons about hard work, maximizing potential and that winners were more than born — that even the best still had to practice.

If you live or lived in Northeast Pennsylvania and are around my age then you are acquainted with the names Jimmy Cefalo and Bob Barbieri.  I never knew Jimmy Cefalo beyond a handful of meetings,  but in addition to being Coach, Bob Barbieri was an teacher at the school.  His lessons extended beyond the football field and beyond the classroom, they extended into life.  They are lessons I used getting through boot camp, college, business and in overcoming obesity.  His words about Jimmy Cefalo echoed in my head when I began my journey  from Fat Then to Fit Now and I was determined to achieve my goals and work harder than anyone else.

 

 

 

6 months!

 

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Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white. 
 

 

Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy,

 

Joe

 

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Sometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com

 

Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/1492763365

 

Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG

 

Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_

 

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333

 

For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism.

 

**************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.***********

 

Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com

 

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333

 

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q

 

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Obesity, Willpower & Personal Responsibility


Originally posted May 2012

 

Obesity, Willpower & Personal Responsibility

Chiropractor Doc Joe Leonardi discusses the importance of choice and willpower in battling obesity.

6 months!

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Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white. 
 

Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy,

Joe

full color cover

Sometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com

Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/1492763365

Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG

Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333

For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism.

**************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.***********

Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333

http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q

and on Create Space https://www.createspace.com/3903024

Weakness Is A Crime – Some Days I Am Weak & I Don’t Like It!


frj1951-1241280716I can’t tell you in any great detail the whys, but my business life continues to collapse around me.  I have tried everything I can think of, and pissed some good money down the drain on marketing to try and bring my business back from the brink.

I love practicing, which is why I have been fighting so very hard to hang on, working and hoping that the business will recover.  However, I’m just no longer sure I can make it happen.  There is a point of diminishing returns and the stress has had me burying my head in the sand in regards to many issues.  It is not a way I like to live my life, but the weight of the world can be more than burdensome, it can be down right crushing.  More than crushing, it can be, and often has been, frightening.

I spent much of my youth as a quitter.  No matter what I went out for or clubs/groups I joined, inevitably I would tire of it and simply give it up.  It was a quality I spent much of my adult life trying to improve upon, however, sometimes we can go too far in the opposite direction.

One example, and perhaps the most detrimental of my decisions, happened when I ran for congress.  I developed an illness and had a very serious post operative infection.  I should have dropped out of the race, but I was determined not to quit.  That decision, helped hasten the financial hole I was digging for myself —- but I did not, I would not, I could not quit.

340lbs March 1, 2008

340lbs March 1, 2008

Pride can be a double edged sword.  Pride can encourage us to be the very best we can, but it can also allow us to make incorrect decisions based upon not only pride, but vanity as well. Perhaps, in addition to, if not great than, was the negative impact on my health.  After literally fighting for my life, I allowed my health to fall apart.  Because of the illness I was unable to eat anything other than ice cream for several months, and after the surgery, I couldn’t even eat that.  My health deteriorated and I lost weight and muscle eventually dropping under 175 pounds.  But once I was correctly diagnosed and treated, I was able to eat again, and boy did I.  I went from gaunt and drawn to soft and round in a matter of months. The stress of trying to recover and run for office led me to eat and eat and eat and eat, and eventually to start drinking every night. My business was in shambles, my marriage was over and I weighed more than 300 pounds and was still climbing.  In retrospect, that was a time I should have quit. I should have put my focus on recovering from septicemia and saving my business.  But not only would I have quit, I would have quit in a very public manner.  This wasn’t just a few of my family members and friends, this was an entire congressional district that would have seen that Joe Leonardi was a quitter.

294lbs July 2013

294lbs July 2013

Perhaps pride is the wrong word, I’m thinking stupid is a more apt descriptor.

Now, I am in similar circumstances.  I battled back hard from this obesity relapse.  I am fit, I am healthy and physically, I feel fantastic. Yes, it is great to have my health, but these same stressors that led to my obesity, and relapse, are still present, and even more intense.  I have some serious decisions to make about my future.  There are days I feel like quitting, not just business, not just my healthy lifestyle, but life itself.  I feel like simply dropping out, going from just having my head in the sand, but the entirety of my being. I have to take my experiences and learn from them. Learn that there may be a time to re-evaluate and in fact it may be okay to quit, or perhaps more correctly, a time to start anew.

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Being fit is what gets me through each day.

Waking up at 4:00am and starting my day pursuing physical fitness gives me something to look forward to each day.

Having my health gives me something to be thankful each and every day.

Is it time to leave behind practice and move into full time advocacy for fitness and wellness?

Is it time to leave behind the dank, dreary, darkness and hopelessness of Northeast PA?

I’m not sure what my future holds.  I’m yet unsure of what decisions I will make.

I am 100% sure that through it all, I will never give in to the demonic duo of alcohol and food, nor will I ever quit my healthy, fit lifestyle.

 


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Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white.  

Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy,

Joe

full color cover

Sometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-

20/detail/1492763365

 

Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism. **************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.*********** Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q and on Create Space https://www.createspace.com/3903024************The information contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.************

 

My Goal Is To Uplift and Inspire Others To Take Control Of Themselves


I am often asked what I intend to do in the world of weight loss and fitness.  It is a valid question, one I ponder often.  Although, my answer shouldn’t  pigeonholed into simply weight loss and fitness.

Years ago, I pursued the almighty dollar with a zeal and zest that should have been reserved for living life.  I made a nice living, not wealthy, but I was doing okay.  I had nice things, I vacationed several times a year and I managed to save some money for later in life.  There were many sacrifices made along the way, including not seeing my dying father as often as I now wish I had.

Then, in what seems like the blink of an eye —  it all went away.  An illness, several misdiagnoses, and perhaps worst of all, some very bad choices on my part, led to a complete collapse of my life.

All I had earned — gone.

All I had built — gone.

My health, that I battled back from illness so hard to preserve — gone.

I spent many years blaming others, and through those same years I claimed victim-hood.  I turned to the solace of the bottle and health robbing foods.  My weight soared to 340lbs, and my health sunk to barely life-sustaining levels.  I was mad at the world, and in my sugar and alcohol soaked brain —  it was everyone else’s fault but mine.

I morphed into an over-sized shell of the person I longed to be, but instead of moving forward, toward my goals — I receded back, away from the man I wished to be. 

It took many years to find my way back, and once I did, I thought I had it beaten for good — sadly, as many of you are aware, that was not the case.  Thankfully, I never resumed drinking, but I did turn back to gluttony and sloth, once again slowing my progress toward becoming the person to which I aspired.

I want to help and inspire others.  Assist them in opening their eyes to the fact that the cause of their distress is often times their own decisions and their own lack of action.  To help them take control of themselves, and improve their physical fitness, so they then are in-turn able to take control of other aspects of their lives.

Unfortunately, there are many small minded, myopic individuals who feel it is more important to destroy and tear down others than to bolster and build up.  These people employ the methods of the bully, they pester, antagonize, provoke, annoy and belittle others, not to make a situations better, but to make themselves feel better about themselves.  In addition to ourselves, these are individuals we must overcome to move forward in living a better life.

I use harsh words in describing my battle with the bastard obesity, however, I never use those harsh words with others.  I work to keep fit and healthy to demonstrate via example, that no matter how far we have fallen, it is possible to lift ourselves and move forward, to achieve our goals in spite of what others proclaim.  There are many who tell us we can’t, not because they believe that —  but because their stock and trade is in our failure.  For them to feel important, for them to be fulfilled, for them to have a sense of self, they must have us believe that we are less than we are, and that we can never reach the goals to which we aspire.

I often state, that we should eat and exercise as if we will live forever, but we should live life as if it will end tomorrow.  We should relegate the minutia of which we have no control to the back-burner of our focus, and place emphasis on what, not only we can control, but what is of genuine importance — and that is taking great care of ourselves, so we can in turn, care for others.

The bully sets forth an agenda to destroy, a human being sets forth an intent to encourage.

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 Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white.   

Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy,

Joe

full color coverSometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/1492763365Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism. **************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.*********** Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q and on Create Space https://www.createspace.com/3903024 ************The information contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.************

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The Great Paradox: To Live A Better Life; Embrace The Certainty Of Your Death


I wrote and posted this in Jan. 2012, before the stress of that upcoming summer changed my life, and my bad choices led to a obesity relapse.  I now read this posting every day.  I must never forget and allow my choices to ever again give the bastard obesity a foothold in my life. 

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“…in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”  Benjamin Franklin 

…all living things have to die. … We all die,some of us sooner then later.” Georgia Lass

Dead Like Me: Life After Death

There are events in our lives that make us aware of our own mortality.  I have had three definitive instances in my lifetime that have done this.  Unfortunately, that was all those particular instances did — made me aware.

Most of us know that one day we are going to die.  As we have grown into adulthood we have lost loved ones and we reflect on their life and we take a moment, especially if someone dies suddenly or unexpectedly,  to realize that one day that will be us.  Sometimes we reflect for more than a moment, other times even less.  However long we reflect or pause, we move on and forward, but inside we may not genuinely believe that one day that will be us.

Our mortality is one of those intangibles in life because it is so hard to grasp.  We learn by experience, and while a brush with death, battling a life threatening illness or a near death experience may remind us that we are merely mortal, we may not actually accept the fact.

You see that is, in my opinion, the difference that really matters.  We can be aware that we will one day die, but we may not really in our hearts accept it.  For most of us we look at our deaths as something that may happen and if we concede the certainty, we cling to the belief that it is a day that is a long way off.

After my cardiac catheterization I went from being aware of, to accepting of my ultimate demise.  It was a moment that freed me of many of my worries and concerns.  To not only know, but genuinely, whole-heartedly accepted the one truth about life, my person was suddenly set free.

I have written about the detriments of negative energy in the past.  It was a concept that I was always well aware of, but until the moment of my mortality acceptance, it was more metaphysical than substantive. When I embraced my mortality, when I accepted that one day I will die — it was then that I fully began to live.

I no longer allow the, often times, real worries of daily living to impact my life.

I no longer allow the uncontrollable actions of others to dampen my joy of living.

I no longer complain, whine and chatter endlessly about the unimportant aspects of every day existence.

I do not love nor even like, the area in which I reside.  I don’t like the attitude of despair and hopelessness. I am not a fan of cold temperatures, icy roads, snow or any other aspect associated with winter in the Northeastern Untied States. However, right now at this moment in time, this is where I am.  I am here because of decisions that I made, so instead of bemoaning the aspects I don’t care for, I focus exclusively on the positives that are present.

Because I not only acknowledge and accept, but dare I say relish my mortality, I embrace the dawn of each and every new morning. When I go out for a jog in the sometimes very frigid morning air, I allow the briskness of the atmosphere to stimulate my senses. When the white precipitations falls from the sky, instead of grumbling about shoveling it, I look forward to the manual work I am physically capable of performing.

It is also about perspective:

  • In the cold temperatures, I have a warm place to sleep.
  • In tough financial times, I have a family to love me and a family for me to love.

I no longer put off enjoying my life.  I recently went to Southern California to visit my sister and nephews.  Money isn’t as free as it has been in the past.  For a very brief moment I thought I should not go.  I juggled some bills, put off others and made the trek west.  The boys will only be young for a brief period of time and I want to be part of it as often as I can.

Because living a fit life is living a better life I have been quoted as saying, “Eat and exercise as if you will live forever; live as if you will die tomorrow.”

I have a goal of changing my residence to a warmer climate, near the ocean and earning enough to unite my family in that one location, yet as I work and plan toward that goal, I accept, that for reasons beyond my control, my life may end before I get there so — I will not allow today to pass in hopes of a tomorrow that may never arrive.

*********************************************************************************Life is lived in color, but sometimes the answers remain black and white.  Aloha, Ciao and Stay Healthy, Joe full color coverSometimes The Bastard Returns is available on Amazon.com Paperback: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/1492763365Kindle: http://astore.amazon.com/fathfinobl-20/detail/B00HGVPCXG Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.com51tXIOPTNwL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333 For over three and half years I maintained a 130 pound weight loss, then last year I lost my way and found a relapse in obesity. I am discussing my battle with recidivism. **************The information, advice and opinions contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.*********** Obesity Undone, is available in both paperback and kindle versions at amazon.comhttp://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition/dp/1477624333http://www.amazon.com/Obesity-Undone-Beyond-Weight-Edition-ebook/dp/B008R8KA1Q and on CreateSpace https://www.createspace.com/3903024 ************The information contained herein is for information purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease or disorder. The posting and videos do not apply to those with an underlying medical or hormonal condition. I advise anyone embarking on a weight loss and fitness plan to have a thorough medical evaluation. You want to be sure that you are physically able to exercise and you don’t have any underlying medical conditions No guarantees are made or to be implied.************